To Love is to Forget????

Hi Frns,

            People often say am in Love,am having a Lover,We just started..etc.But anyone are sure that the same persons are getting into Marriage??
I often see or get some news from my friends a word named "BREAKUP",what's this all about,after being together for many years you people just break your love??
May be am not the right person to talk about this topic but i just wanted to know the reason,why even the marriages are getting the word named "BREAKUP??"

Loving a person is the best part in our life,we choose a person in our life after our parents and settle in our life,which is the most wonderful feeling and a new part in our life.I can say Love has the power to Change a person,it has the power to bring back the dead but what about now-a-days??
I can see people are using this funny word named "BREAKUP" so easily,don't know why???
May be because those don't love each other anymore??

 are you vexed up ??
 has financial problems??
Misunderstandings??
Trust??
Honestly saying,those who thought they were really in love are never in love,it's just attraction.May be am too young to say this or may be am too inexperienced in this part of life but all i want to ask is
WHY A BREAKUP??
Really those lovers,who lost their love because of their denial of marriage from their parents,are really the true lovers,Those lovers who die for each other,those lovers who made history of their love are the TRUE LOVERS.
So,people i really don't want to criticize the one who suffered a break up but am just trying to ask you a question.. why??

I REALLY APPRECIATE ANYONE WHO VISITED OR READ THIS TOPIC TO POST YOUR ANSWERS...
"The rose is red, the violet's blue,
The honey's sweet, and so are you.
Thou art my love and I am thine;
I drew thee to my Valentine:
The lot was cast and then I drew,
And Fortune said it shou'd be you......"

Happy Friendship Day!!

Hello Friends,
                     This Friendship week i want to remind some funny things and stuff that i want to share it with you all.Firstly Happy Friendship Day Folks!!

I still remember the day i stepped into my school and it was a new city,i was in my 8TH grade and i was really horrified to go into the school because am not that good sociable person,that day i still remember that 9TH Grade senior girl who guided me the correct direction to my class,probably you might be thinking am supposed to say about friends but friendship is not that going outside together,partying and stuff.it's about understanding each other and having trust.Well obviously,that girl became my friend and my mom always say,why you had friends from smaller ages to older ages,in fact she is surprised of me sometimes!!
But i say friendship has no age limit and what all we need is understanding and supporting person,which we call Friends.

People say often,"yeah she is my friend.." but am not searching for such people who say friend in front of us and enemy at back.Am in search of a friend who can understand me and may be because of my thinking in this way i have many friends from all ages!!!

So,people what i think is friendship has no age limit and we humans are sociable and cannot live lonely,we can stay without a life partner or lover but cannot stay without friends and family,all i want to say is what we always think is of a dream boy and after we find him,we have fights and thus the relationship ends but a friend will never be like that,even we fight,even we scold they never be apart,if they are apart then they are never a friend to each other.



Moral : (What i think)

Don't ever loose any friend with your silly attitudes because at last you will be the Lonely person in the world!!

Happy Friendship Day to all of you and A small Apology from this writer of not being so active in my blog but please stay tuned...Ravs is always there!!!!

Story of Serena.....

Happy Mother's Day,

Well i don't know dreams predict our future or not but daily i get a dream of a Girl named Serena,after many days of thinking i wanted to post it here,may be it is all god wanted me to say something through her...

She is an orphan,brought up in an orphanage and one day a handsome guy passing by the orphanage looked at the enriching beauty Serena and fell in love with her beauty.One day she was called by her headmistress of the orphanage and she told her that she is getting married to a person named Kevin the coming week,serena was shocked and surprised but was happy that her dream to have her own family is being achieved.
Knowing nothing about the family and the person,serena got married to Kevin,may be we don't know we do mistakes without knowingly and unsuspectingly,it was the situation of serena too.

Everything was fine for a month and from then onwards her aunt became a witch and her husband a psycopath,daily she used to get a good thrashing if she denied to do any work.

She was not allowed to go outside and was locked in a small dark room after all the daily chores have been done.She used to get one time meal a day after all the wok she had to do that day.Her husband used to bring other ladies to home and used to criticize her before them.Serena thought to leave the horrifying place but how?
She is a helpless woman and with noone to support her where can she go?
One day she planned to escape from that hell and acting like doing work she opened the door and tried to slip away but her fate is so bad that she was founded by her husband and he bet her so hard that she could hardly move and she fainted.
After a couple of hours she came into consciousness and was in a hospital and saw that her husband is talking to the doctor and what she can hear from their words is that "she is pregnant!".Crying on her fate,she told her baby that "everything will be right little one!".

After a week she was taken to home and she found that there is a change in her husband and her aunt with her.She was happy and thought may be beacause of the little one and after two months,one day Kevin came to her and asked her "do you want to live ?" ,she was surprised and said "i always wanted to live with you forever kevin!" Then Kevin took a Knife and said "but i don't!" and tried to kill her.She ran all the house and managed to get out from the house,how fast can she run in pregnancy?
she needs to save her little one,she needs to save her family,she is helpless and suddenly because of a rock she fell down and kevin got her.He stabbed her at the stomach and ran away.Helpless Serena,lied in the blood with unconsiousness,then a passing by strangers looked at her and took her to the nearby hospital.By god's grace she was fine and after few months,she gave birth to a handsome boy whom she named "KEVIN" and she happily lived her life with her little one.
A story which i don't know but it comes every night which makes me fear of what god wants me to know.... But a story which is still happening these days and there are many single mothers who are facing the same trouble as Serena has......Don't know its because of fate or beacause of what but it's happening....

Life has a Way!!!

There is a old saying that "Life is too short",and in that small life human makes mistakes and good deeds too.

Every Human Being is born for achieving something,they are given a task by the god to do.They have a goal and a path to go across all the burdens they have to achieve it.They have to loose some vital things in life to achieve their goals too but no one in the world can go beyond the almighty neither they can face him.God has given the world Three Beautiful tasks : 1)LOVE (which is a wonderful experience one can have)
                                            2)TIME(Which never stops for you)
    and  3)MONEY(Which loves you in good times and leaves you in bad times!)

Every person looks out for Love,Money and time but these three aspects of life defend themselves in such a way that either two of them or one of them succeeds.Such humans who has these three will be defended by another task i.e Trust.They will be placed in a corner by the people around them as they were not trust worthy.Whenever i see people around me,i think of them are they Happy?
I have seen many happy faces but those happy faces hide some unwanted truths even though they have these three tasks of love,time and money.
Life has a way that we think,Life has a way that we move but life never stops for you but love stops for you but not the money. Everyone has to run in this busy world of technology where they cannot even think about their tasks but just move on in their life.
Life has a way but never choose a bad way,but choose a way where you can get all these tasks but don't loose trust by getting these!

Moral: Love+Money+Time=Life ,don't work too hard that you less time for your love,manage all the three of them and enjoy this short time of beautiful life!!         

A Thump in Heart!!

After a long time my heart is thumping so loud that it can be heard from outside,
Its the sign,
its the indication,
its the feeling and i knew i can get it what i need so soon...

After a long search for waiting of the dream in my heart is fulfilled and now it is returning to the search of the lost happiness i lost from the dream i left.
The day will be coming soon that i completely lost control of my tears and forget the world around me to HUG my parents so tight.
My heart awaits for their presence before me,those lost memories,those lost love,those lost moments which i lost in this past year cannot return but returning to them will fulfill my dream of Happiness to see them will be fulfilled.
Heart Beat increasing daily and my dream to see the Happy Faces is increasing more and more,this time,this hour,this second is really painful which has sweetness in it,some thoughts in it.

My Mom's hug awaits for me,my dad's love awaits for me and my heart is thumping so loud that it can be heard from outside.
Awaiting for the wonderful day that i HUG my parents so tightly.
The Day am waiting impatiently,the day i cry so loud,the day i cannot forget is awaiting.

As its aspiring minds of mine is having a new dream now to get it is little tough though but i have the hope that one day i can achieve it and thinking about that day to come soon my weary eyes awaits in this way.......

A New Beginning!!!

Hi Friends,
                Happy New Year 2012 and I hope these holidays were awesome for you guys. (well not for me,got sick!!)

I just wanted to share my experiences of the last year 2011 and my wish list of 2012.(well,i knew you all will be jealous..hahhaha..!!)

Last year was just like a minute for me,don't know how the days went on but at the last i had some achievements,some incidents,some decisions and soon the year ended.I have found that "TRUE LOVE" does really exists,a parted lovers but their love still exists,may be god has taken away one soul but he couldn't achieve to break their love as being a lady she didn't even married anyone and wanted to be single all alone in the name of her lover and she is happy.
(No one can do that and being a lady i guess not!!)
With this story of that wonderful lady,i have found respect in the word LOVE.Am just still at the start but am just a learner.
I have my masters degree now and am happy for that.I have learned that still there are many puzzles yet to be solved and i should be a puzzle chaser in my life.I have learned that people change and had a very bad experience last year with so called relatives and have experienced the little word "TRUST",they are not the ones who are trustworthy.Had many friends and wherever i go people like me but don't know how i have been hated by some people in college days??

But my enemies also became friends in this year and hopefully they will be forever and i expect they won't cheat me.
New Year Resolutions 2012:

1)To at least get a job in Microsoft
(well i guess Mr.gates awaits for my talent,well it's obvious!!)

2)To at least get a AUDI or a LEXUS car is fine!!
(Well i knew i can be happy in a cycle but what to do i cannot ignore if someone gifts me those..hehehe)
3)To find my Dream Boy

(Well obviously there are many boys in the world,so why to waste our dreams to find a boy!!)
4)To go to EUROPE

(well,i have a old Debt to pay,i mean a little thrashing of one of my enemies,am still a good girl ok!!)
Have a great new year and don't forget to stay safe and have a nice year ahead....

(Well shall i wear this one or that one....????)

A Memorable Day!

Dreams does come true,if you have the zeal to reach it.Many laughed,many teased,many harassed but still this girl from a small town in India has an aspiration to reach the top.She knew the value of tears,she knew the value of pain,she knew the value of taunting and harassment of relatives.She knew how it feels like to be parted from her family just to achieve her little dream to be "Masters in Computer Sciences".
Friends didn't believed her.Classmates laughed at her,but still this girl has the aspiration and goal to reach the dreams of her mother and her grand father.Being her mother her inspiration and father her backbone she finally seeing this day of graduation and not only a graduation but also elected by the President of the university as a "HONOR STUDENT" award with a GPA of 3.9/4.0.(i gave one point to my professor..hehehe).
Now finally she has tears in her eyes which are shinning with a smile and now it's the time for her to prove what she was meant to be now.
Moral: People never degrade a person who have an aspiration of higher aims,never knew they will achieve those one day !!