Born to Die!!

Many people like to commit suicide and end their lives but what about the martyrs of Army, Navy and all civil services people who give their lives for the country. I always wanted to be in the Army as i believe that we are born for a purpose and that purpose can be your sacrifice to many people or helping people who are in need. I too have been facing many problems like everyone but people who wants to commit suicide need to think about one word, why?Are we benefited by the death?
If we are no more no one cares for us, even our parents cry for a year and then they will live and keep busy on their lives so, what's the use of death?
A soul of a person who committed suicide is never accepted by the Heaven so, why to become a ghost?
A person who committed suicide will be blamed after death calling himself a coward by others, why would anyone want to do it?
For every death there will be a reason, one person may die of kidney failure, heart stroke etc, but those who commit suicide (no reason)!!
Help others and live for others, if you don't want to marry anyone just confess to your parents and go on your way rather than committing suicide. If you failed in love, don't ever fall in love again as better marry any person and then try to love that person because u may not love that person but one day love might happen but don't commit suicide. Some commit suicide because they are not beautiful, isn't it silly??
but it happens sometimes too, well love yourself first then world loves you, beauty comes from heart not from face!!

I salute Army, marine, Navy and all civil services warriors who give up their lives to serve the country where as some fools commit suicide to decrease the population and yeah, one way it is good to control population as any country doesn't need any cowards or scare cats!!

Moral: Live for others and die for others and do anything open heartedly and it may not give you riches but some satisfaction in your journey of life!!

My Experiences in USA!!

Hi Friends,
                I always wanted to write about my three years experience in United States Of America. I have learnt a lot from USA. In this blog i would like to share the little experiences of mine regarding the wonderful Cities i have visited in USA. My first city which i have stepped in was New York and let me start with the amazing experiences i have faced in this busiest city.

New York is a place where there is a unique culture, fashion and the lifestyle is different than the other parts of USA. I have seen many places in New York like the Statue of Liberty which is the best sculpture i have seen. The view of New York city from the boat to the Statue of Liberty was really amazing, surprising and awesome. We can get the glimpse of the whole downtown of New York city. The buildings were so huge and even we can get the newly ongoing construction of World Trade Center. I liked the Hot Dogs from New York Suburbs though my mom never let me to have street foods but still these were really yummy and fresh. The first time i have seen the Street Dancing was in New York and the dancers were really amazing, being a dancer myself i wish to learn certain dance moves from them. These talents are to be supported by the dance companies so that they can earn much more than performing at the streets. I have also noticed the wonderful Street Painting artists, who painted 3D images in such a ease and smoothly. The Street Magicians were kind of fun and really gifted but i wonder they earn much more money or not but they are really having a gifted talent which should be rewarded highly. Then, i have been to the Times Square where i can see all the Display Videos of the advertisers and the Wall Street as usual was busy with the stocks and exchanges but it was a busy street and is very classic.

Well, My experiences as a Tourist to New York was, learnt few steps of dance from Street Dancers, Have got a chance to see the 3D painting and Magical performances. I have also seen people roaming at nights and may be working so late around at 3:00AM too, which amused me so much. I felt am in a world where there is fun, excitement, work, joy and happiness. The winter over there is kinda horrible but the rest of the months will be like a place where anyone could never be bored of.

So, the next experience i gonna share is about Connecticut, USA...

Thanks for reading this post and have a fun and exciting weekends people...

Yours Ravie...!!!!

Unconditional Love!!!

If love can be explained by words I would have written a 1000 books about LOVE,

If love can be explained by expressions I might have made a movie about LOVE,

If love can be shown then I might have opened my heart to show it.

Love is unexplained, a magic of heart which is so strange but it will explain that Love exists in Mother’s hand, Grand Parents stories, dad’s Scolding’s and our Pet’s tail wagging. Generally, if the matter comes about love from Teenage to adults everyone thinks of their boyfriend or girlfriend. But Unconditional love only comes from two people in the whole world is your Parents. Your parents can understand the true feelings of yours, your dreams, your likes or dislikes. For a marriage to turn out to be a lifelong commitment it takes years to understand each other and some couples get separated because of the variations of understandings but they get the support from their family and that mental support will only be given by the person who truly loves you and those persons are called parents. Celebrating your Valentine’s Day with your Spouse or your girlfriend or boyfriend is not a big deal and celebrating the Valentine’s Day with your Parents will give you the true meaning of love. Our spouses may love us unconditionally too but still we shouldn’t leave our parents as Valentine’s Day true meaning is to salute the purity of Love and the existence of a wonderful feeling named LOVE. 

I wish each and every reader of my blog and to the entire world A VERY HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY!!

Well, Valentine’s Day for Ravie will be same old Work, work, work and work….Phew!!

  

Love and to be Loved!!!

Love is something you cannot explain, a bonding which you feel with the someone special and you wouldn't know it until you start missing them so badly.
Love is a bondage between two hearts and if the love is true, am sure it wouldn't be one-sided and true love always wins the race.

All i know from my experiences is Loving truly a person, will help you learn the bitter side and also the happy side of yours.
Loving your parents will teach you the way to lead your life,
Loving your pets will teach you that love is unconditional,
Loving your friends will teach you that love is in trust and understanding,
Finally Loving the life you are in, will teach you the path of happiness and your destiny to god!

I remember a story about Love, there used to be a girl who is really ambitious and hardworking and a boy who is very unhappy and sad, destiny made them to be together
and one day the girl left the boy as the destiny of the girl is god as she is having a cancer, but still the boy remembers her and now he always smile for her and led his life in a very great way.
He has a ambition to achieve for the love he trusts in. Love is nothing but trust and understanding nothing else.

Love just happens and it is a miracle of heart which responds when you come close to the person you are born for, in short SOUL MATE.

I really admire every person in the whole world who trusts in love and their love was true and i wish them a happy valentine's day.

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY @FEB 14TH,2014.

Awakening your inner self…!!!

With a wide smile and happiness to reach home, trying to cross the road with my Grandma and suddenly there was a huge sound all over the place and then I have checked my back to know if my Grandma is behind me or not, then I came to know that she had met with an accident. I was crossing the road with her holding my hands and walking towards the other side of the road and I have reached the other part but not my granny. All I can see is blood all over the place and people rushing towards the place, am just 8 years old and I was trying to find out where I can find my granny in that crowd. I have seen a fallen motorcycle and two people on my right and my granny right in front of me at a particular distance. I ran towards her, by pushing the crowd and calling my granny and crying. All I remember is the road we were crossing has no one at that time and no vehicles and then we started walking to the other side of the road after the walk sign, but where does this motor cycle come from and how did it hit my granny as I was holding her hand as well then I should also need to get the hit. God is always there and his way of showing things to us is a sign of something which we never can understand. Luckily, my granny just got a leg fracture and she is all well but not the motorcyclist.

At that age if you come across near to death and losing your loved ones right in front of you, how can a small girl can react to this incident?

I have learnt that you are living this very moment because you have done a good deed in your life. Many people who are being either forced to die or accidentally or something else was the destiny. My destiny might be something else which was only known to god. Every person has a destiny and knowing your destiny only comes when you finally start thinking about yourself. Some people think that failing in love is the end of life, losing their loved ones is the end of life, failing in exams, etc. But my question is what’s end of life?

Why are we are living in this world after losing our loved ones?

What’s the exact purpose of ours?

Was it is easy to die or easy to live?

 Not only once I got into these conclusions many times but couldn’t find the answers. What’s called destiny?

Why are we on this Planet?

Why should we earn, eat, sit, think etc.?

May be my questions aren't answered well by anyone but what I concluded myself was life is nothing but keeping yourself happy even the situations worsen, even there is no purpose left for you, Life is a boon given to us, Life is something about you and yourself and the relations you make or come across will leave you and go away but your life is just about conquering yourself, thinking about yourself and thinking about helping others and it all depends on your thoughts and mind control. Life is just a journey of a soul to its destiny and when the destiny is met, you will be called by god no matter where you are.

If there is air which you breathe in was the initial need to be alive, then god is in air, he is everywhere.

The purpose of a human or a living being is to fulfill the destiny we are born for and knowing that destiny will be your own self. I don’t know my destiny, but I knew one day my destiny will be completed and after completing it I wouldn't regret myself to meet the almighty. Planning no future, no past, no present but living this very moment with a smile on face and hope at heart is the purpose of mine. Aspirations, goals etc. are just made by yourself and those are your destiny and losing interest of that and killing yourself will be foolishness.

All you can conquer is about you and only you, you are a lone survivor, you are a born alone and die alone, reach the destiny and give your life a meaning and a purpose which will guide the others in your path… I really admire Gandhi, Martin Luther King and Bill Gates, as they have shown the path to lead a life and conquer it.

Beautiful Roses.....!!!

A life is just like a Rose and never knew this beauty can hurt us, never knew the color will fade one day, never knew there will be thorns in it, never knew it shines for a day!!

A human never wants anything but he wants everything, he/she thinks that we have everything but they don't know they got nothing. Whenever I see roses I feel enlightened to think that why girls mostly like flowers because they are very sensitive just like a girl's heart. I saw many girls who are very much confident, Strong Minded but all are the same by heart, when they got hurt they will show their sensitive side of them. I wonder why girls are compared to flowers, because they are soft and beautiful.

Girls get angry a lot, well these roses never wants to loose but there are many situations where these beautiful roses are made to cry and I have seen these roses fall when they are rejected by their parents, I have also seen when these roses die when they are rejected by their partner, I also have seen these roses cry when these roses are bent down when they are abused, but still these are the beautiful roses with a strong heart and confidence in them which made them to think that still there is a hope in this small world to sustain this cruelty against them.

May be a warrior has to die at last even though he might be a great warrior. May be we are popular among everyone but sometimes we need to loose and at that tough times we will not get any support from anyone but just a faith in god.
Everyone walks away from you just because you are having a tough time; well those who walk away from you are never your friends or relations. People who are your supporters before, now laugh at your back in these tough times. May be we have a very great heart but god always love to test those good people because he wants them to be in Heaven but not in Hell.

Wherever we can see is the cruelty among the woman and the only hope we can get is the change of mind from the people rather than the expectations of controlling the freedom of walking outside for a girl at the evenings. May be these roses are meant to be attractive to the world but it is not their sin to be attractive, many people want them to be in a specific clothing but what no one understands was that, these beautiful roses have such an attraction that they cannot hide or cannot be replaced. If the world thinks to end the race of girls, then there wouldn't be another world as well. We can see many people don’t like to have a girl child because they can’t suffer the pain of losing their child in the hands of a butler; there are many butler’s in the country or in the world, who just want to kill these beautiful roses and chop them so hard that they cannot be visible in this world.

God always test people a lot because he knew that, they will definitely reach their goal in spite of many troubles and hurdles but there has to be a limit for everything, when everything in your hand goes off from you and you are in a position that cannot show your face to anyone but still we need to have a brave Heart for that, Don't ever Give Up in life. The world is harsh towards women but still they survive this world as a Mother, Daughter, and Spouse and are still surviving with a hope of change in the people’s mind towards them.

I salute the beauty, confidence, motherhood of these beautiful roses (girls)......

Note: Roses means Girls/women in the topic.

Krypto and Me!!

Obviously it's not the same as Marley and Me movie or any other movies, it's just me and my dog. My Krypto came to my home when he was around 21 days old and it was Summer time in India. I always wanted a Pet from childhood but my parents never agreed the option but it was all of a miracle or my parent's love towards my siblings i got a pet at last. Of course my parents like me too but i was way too naughty when i was small so,it's enough for my parents to look after me all day!! (I know am sweet!! )

I don't know why i got too attached to this dog, a German Spitz but still i couldn't understand why does he love all of us extremely. Even our parents will stop showing their love at a point of time but never a pet will stop loving it's master. Sometimes i used to scold Krypto, but he never stopped licking me after my scolding stopped. I always love to walk with him in the mornings and his begging for the morning walk remembers me it's been a while he is with us but i don't even realized that years passed by.

I know that Krypto, who saved a puppy from a big Dalmatian and even i witnessed it no one believed as he is so small and how can anyone believe it?? This is a world which need proof, but i know am not talking lies and am happy i witnessed it and i know this small dog who was so neat and clean at the age of 21 days old itself as we never trained him to be clean and he never got any training from us for being clean. He likes if we talk about Golden Retriever dog as he was his favorite dog, who used to live near to our house at the time. I have many memories of him and with those memories i came to USA and recently i visited India then, my Krypto didn't recognized me at all!!

He was so sick at that time and i thought to touch him and he didn't even let me touch him but accepted the Toys i bought for him. Krypto forgot me as it was a  shock for me . He was sick still, but don't know he was not the same as before and has got Luxating Patella to his one of his leg and it is really sad to see that dog, who used to jump on me when i used to visit him. This all happened when one Veteran gave him a injection and that mad doctor did something to my dog which made him this sick. He was a very healthy dog and never got any health problems until 7 years but all of a sudden after that Veteran's injection, we are seeing our dog in pain and low at health.

This post is to all those Veteran's who treat animals, please money can buy you a car, house etc. These things will fade away or will never come with you to your graveyard when you die so, why do you people play with animals life?
I know my Krypto is hanging still just because we love him so much and he is resisting the pain because he wanted to be with us some more time and due to the veteran now, all we can see is him vomiting and having a dry cough.. My Dog never asked us to give him food or he begged for chicken anytime and he was such a good pet and he was sick for almost 9 months by now, became so thin than we ever can imagine and really he is holding the pain because of his love for us. Now, he couldn't even walk properly and i still remember   that day when he showed me his leg where that MAD VETERAN put the injection on a Nerve of his leg which made him cannot walk properly and it's swollen the nerves at that part and every Veteran say that there is no cure for it.

Moral: Please people don't be so selfish and please be aware of the consequences of the deeds you make!!