Depression??? (ASK ME!!)

Hello Friends,
                      Life we think it's very easy if we have money, if we have family and friends but our body is not the same as we expect.sometimes we need to
understand that something is bothering us and it is not because of family or friends but something which u can't explain but u feel to cry.
Depression is one of such illness or i would say a condition, where people feel that they are fine and active but it will act them suddenly without their knowledge.

Actually depression can occur may be due to loneliness, heart broken, worries, tensions etc but mainly depression can occur normally also.People say i think you are not psychologically correct or ill but it's not correct but sometimes the brain processes too much of requests and tasks that
once it got exhausted and then we feel yes this is end of the story. Myself, i faced this situation recently, may be i was heart-broken, felt emptied,
lost hope in life even i isolated from my friends and family and i don't want to do it but i was doing it without my intention.I was acting weirdly with everyone.

At first i thought may be because i got rejected in my love may be its the problem, but later on i discovered its not about that but something else.
I was sad about the loss of my love but y am acting weird is the question banging on my head all the time. I was easily weeping on phone. Friends who knew me found out y am easily breaking down these days without any reason. It's just not a mental illness but sometimes people get into trance that they feel emptied themselves in this big world.

 May be because of lost love, may be because of career and it will start in such a way.Even i know suicide is a stupid thing to do but i felt like i have done enough and achieved enough now and just wanted to die but y, i have no reason for it. This is called depression.

But, honestly saying that being with your family and friends will make you again normal which took me two months to get back to normal. I really thank my good friend Ravi, who never let me go even though i acted weird, i screamed at him,i burs ted out in tears with him,but he was always there for me as a good friend, as a brother, he helped me to get back to normal and now i would say that i have fought the depression almost 95%.

The main Reason for me to write this article is that DEPRESSION is not any mental illness or u r mad but sometimes you are affected in life too much which makes u to be depressed. For me my friend helped me to take me out of depression
but for many its not the same so its good to consult a psychiatrist. 36% of Indians are in depression and India tops the depression rate around the world. So, i would like to convey everyone that don't be sad and just talk about it and i know depression not only being caused just because u lost something etc but it also causes scientifically due to hormonal changes as well. Women are prone to more depression than men and i would say don't isolate yourself from world
as it's not a sin to be depressed.
Battle it and live and laugh and love yourself.
Remember one thing that you are born for some reason and you are the best being yourself.
Keep smiling from your heart and don't fake it dears!!    

Parents,"We are Born to you not to the society!!"

Hello Friends,
                      This post is entirely for educating the young parents and also normal parents who think what they do is correct in their life for their children.
There are some parents who are very protective about their children as they provide clothes,gadgets, phones etc to them and think they have fulfilled their child desires. The main reason of a spoil brat is that not making him understand the hard work you have gone through to earn that gadget or whatsoever piece of item. Even the children of presidents or higher officials train their children to be self-independent because its not the matter of money but upbringing of their child in the society in a positive manner. The big mistakes parents do to their children is that they provide all the requirements of theirs without asking. Parents never or ever should encourage their kids of being dependent on anyone and it only develops by not providing them what they want (I know am kinda harsh here but my main motto is the children should actually earn the item they want either by earning somewhere or getting good marks in exams but not casually).
Second big mistake of parents was when their child gets depressed about something and they share it with them then they say to forget it. Many psychologists i have asked this question is this a correct way of getting the child not to think or be in suicidal or depression mood??
The answer i got was really appealing, what they said is that :

Let the child SPEAK,
Let them CRY wholeheartedly,
Let them SCREAM BAD WORDS,
Let the PAIN out than making them frustrated by keeping it inside of them.
Parents should try to make them understand that they are not useless and make their confidence build up as more as possible because children when at depression are needed lack of self worth. Any age children may be adults also face the same situation called "lack of self worth"while at depression which has to be supported by parents making them confident that they are not useless". I have seen many parents doing the same mistake calling their children of any age as USELESS, this small word can make their mental stability disturbed which will lead to depression, aggressiveness,;Lack of confidence within them. Children only can share with their parents and no one else and that is the biggest part what parents should understand.
Some adults who got breakups in their personal life seek loneliness due to lack of self worth and self respect among society but the simple solution for this problem is even parents should understand was that LET THEM SPEAK THEIR PAIN . Don't force or motivate them saying to forget their past but make them comfort that future may be good but let them take their time and don't make them force on anything.'Any broken heart cannot marry suddenly another person because they are in lack of confidence and trust which they can only get when the time goes on. People who are depressed will be in more pain and distress who needs time and support from not only parents but also by friends who has to understand their pain and make them comfort until they get stabilize.

My sincere advice for all the parents around the world that your children is your responsibility, your child has to face the society alone but only if you support them nicely, LET THEM SPEAK THEIR PAIN OUT, LET THEM CRY THEIR PAIN OUT, LET THEM OPEN UP........!!!

My Valentine!!

When i woke up suddenly in the middle of night it was because of this crazy dream of yours that there will be a day, that i have to leave you behind.

 Love is crazy when you actually fall in it. May be the other person may not love you but if your love was true they will definitely understand it. Love has no boundaries, no caste, nothing at all. Love is pure when you actually feel it. 

This valentine your Ravie wishing all of you a Happy Valentine's day and also to my Love who is somewhere hidden among you.

Baby, I may not be perfect girl you wished for but i always trusted you and loved you so much more than anyone else in this world. If you are out there somewhere and can hear my voice do come back.

I miss you Baby!!

Silent voices

I know u luv me,but u dare not to express it

I know u care for me,but u disguise urself not to express it

I know u support me,but you act of not to

I know u cannot let me die,but u don't know someday I have to....

Ur eyes always predict the existence of luv towards me

Ur breath always make me feel that am alive

Ur voice always make me teach that am in love

Ur face always make me recognize that am Urs 

Ur heart always make me respond that am inside it

Now, ur distance makes me die daily just to be with u may be in next life....

Baby, it's just u who can make me stand and how can u leave me in this ocean of life and go to such distances that u will never come back??

Baby, how can I live this life just being a loner??

These voices are always heard by everyone those who come across of their failure in love and lost their love and this is dedicated to those who lost their love and failed in their love....

Life's just a Ramp Walk!!

The ramp is set before you can walk and all you need is to show up your confidence and go forward. The music is on, but still nothing to be heard except the walk to be completed by you. There will be many who will appreciate your walk and even take photographs of you and some will throw some tantrums or lewd comments on you but still you need to finish the walk on the ramp with an attitude and confidence within you. The show might start early and there might be many people who are walking along with you in this ramp but still if you loose your confidence you will slip on the ramp but still you should not give up or loose your attitude and finish the ramp walk. The ramp i mention here is this World created by god for us and there might be uncertainties in life but still you should complete this walk with the same old attitude and confidence you started in this life from the day you are born. 

Sometimes in life we need to build up good confidence within us, even though you are lost with the inner-most saddest parts of your life but still you need to have the confidence within you to get your life into a new phase. I slipped in this ramp walk many times and had got hurt with the lewd comments of people watching me but still i need to finish this walk at any cost and i got up and still walking...

Recently, i went to a fashion show event for the first time in the life which showed me that life is nothing but just a ramp walk. I have seen the models getting slipped sometimes because of the high heels but still their expressions on their face are the same, they didn't felt a shy or cried in front of everyone but they took it in a positive manner and completed the walk, that's what any one should have in their life. I know i have slipped many times in my life but until you finish this ramp walk you are not going to reach your purpose of life, so what i feel is life is just a ramp walk...

Don't cry if people call you a idiot, maniac and mainly loser because the name loser itself has a name winner by it's side and i always think life is life when we take a risk...

So, people are you ready to finish the ramp walk with me??

Take care everyone and don't forget to smile... :) :) 

Lastly, Happy Thanksgiving and Merry Christmas!!!

A Stranger She Met.......

She was a stubborn girl with lots of aims in her mind and a very chaotic girl without any plans of her future.She stepped into a new world which is entirely different to her, the culture, the people, the language and everything.

This girl was trying to get along with the new world, even though she miss her parents a lot, she tried to cope up with the new life.She found strange behaviors of the people and those who are from her world are different in that new world and all these have impacted her very much but, she couldn't tell her parents about the variations of her life and troubles, she managed to get along with the new world. The university she joined was really competitive and people are struggling hard to get a good rank and all she needed was a motivation to study hard. Then, she had only one true friend who supported her very honestly and all she had for a mental support was him.
  At March 1st 2010, she never thought her life will take a new turn when she was interrupted in her life with an introduction of a stranger. That day is the day she can never forget in her life which has become a fairy tale come true. This stranger she met was once a known person but still a stranger to her because of communication problems. She was continuing her studies well but suddenly, she got into trouble of finances which made her to change the university. Though, she didn't believed this Stranger but she shared her grief to only two people whom she believed that they can understand her grief of changing the university which she thought to have a degree.

There is a saying, whenever you feel that you are all alone and has no one in this world to believe or support you, god will send you an angel to take care of you. Those angels were her best friend and this stranger. Though, she has many people around her who don't believe in her and her studies including her parents these two angels made her build up her confidence and made her to choose the correct way.She asked her cousin about the decision she wants to make but her cousin simply scolded her saying, " You are not fit for doing this degree!"
This small sentence said it all to her and though she knew for every problem there is a solution but just for a mental support she called her cousin which made her more devastated and her tears are flowing from her eyes all day because of those words. Then, she got a ping in on line from the stranger as usual then this girl told him regarding the sorrow she has, she got a call from the stranger as he asked her number to call her and she gave her number. (Many people may wonder, why would a person share their personal phone number to a stranger?? )
This girl was not even thinking anything else but just crying all day and needed some mental support and confidence of deciding what's next for her, well she is sensitive for sure but she made a big decision to leave her secured world with parents and enter this new dimension world with confidence that she can make it through but now she lost her confidence and was crying whether to return back or how to continue this journey.

The stranger called her and firstly, he comforted her with good motivating words and made her silent from crying and made her understand that it's not important where you complete your degree but how you achieve it and how you show the world that you can make things possible. These words made that girl to think that this stranger is her angel from heaven. Life of hers has been changed the day she started talking to this stranger, may be because she is all alone or because she needs some moral support or what are the reasons for this girl to open the door of her heart to this stranger??

Her true friend also called her after the call from the stranger to console her that, she is not an ordinary girl but wanted to be a successful girl in life.Her mind cooled down and relieved from the pain and she slept for waking up tomorrow with a fresh mind to think what's next for her...

Well, this is a continuing story which i wanted to describe it completely and this is a true story of one of my best friends and am sure everyone will like this fairy tale which came true....!!!

Moral: Sometimes a Stranger can become a motivator to change your path into success.   

Born to Die!!

Many people like to commit suicide and end their lives but what about the martyrs of Army, Navy and all civil services people who give their lives for the country. I always wanted to be in the Army as i believe that we are born for a purpose and that purpose can be your sacrifice to many people or helping people who are in need. I too have been facing many problems like everyone but people who wants to commit suicide need to think about one word, why?Are we benefited by the death?
If we are no more no one cares for us, even our parents cry for a year and then they will live and keep busy on their lives so, what's the use of death?
A soul of a person who committed suicide is never accepted by the Heaven so, why to become a ghost?
A person who committed suicide will be blamed after death calling himself a coward by others, why would anyone want to do it?
For every death there will be a reason, one person may die of kidney failure, heart stroke etc, but those who commit suicide (no reason)!!
Help others and live for others, if you don't want to marry anyone just confess to your parents and go on your way rather than committing suicide. If you failed in love, don't ever fall in love again as better marry any person and then try to love that person because u may not love that person but one day love might happen but don't commit suicide. Some commit suicide because they are not beautiful, isn't it silly??
but it happens sometimes too, well love yourself first then world loves you, beauty comes from heart not from face!!

I salute Army, marine, Navy and all civil services warriors who give up their lives to serve the country where as some fools commit suicide to decrease the population and yeah, one way it is good to control population as any country doesn't need any cowards or scare cats!!

Moral: Live for others and die for others and do anything open heartedly and it may not give you riches but some satisfaction in your journey of life!!